
Phlur
Missing Person Eau de Parfum
The TikTok-famous 'your lover's skin' musk: soft, clean and intimate, but some noses can barely smell it at all.
The original 'skin scent': a soft pink pepper, iris and ambrette musk that wears close, though some people can barely smell it.
Scent score
#6 of 6 fragrance
Community
—/10
Last reviewed November 2, 2026 by our editors · How we score
The verdict
The original 'skin scent': a soft pink pepper, iris and ambrette musk that wears close, though some people can barely smell it.
Glossier You is a skin-scent eau de parfum built mostly from base notes: pink pepper on top, iris in the heart and a warm base of ambrette and Ambrox designed to mingle with the wearer's skin chemistry. It helped popularize the 'my skin but better' category and remains a cult favorite for subtle, compliment-getting everyday wear. Its close-to-skin character divides people: some love its intimacy, while others say they cannot detect it at all. It is cruelty-free and vegan.
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How it scored
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A clean, warm and slightly peppery musk built mostly from base notes; pleasant and easy, though deliberately simple and polarizing for some noses.
Designed to wear close to skin, and Reddit users report that some people cannot smell it at all.
Unobtrusive enough for offices, daytime, any season and any gender.
$82 for 50 ml is a premium price for a minimalist skin scent with many cheaper alternatives.
Reddit users call it culturally iconic and a top compliment-getter, balanced by a vocal group who find it undetectable, unpleasant or overpriced.
The scent
Top notes · The first 15 minutes
Pink Pepper
Heart notes · The next few hours
Iris
Base notes · What lingers on skin
Ambrette · Ambrox
Soft, warm skin scent of pink pepper, iris, ambrette and Ambrox
Concentration
Format
Size
How to use
Spray on skin; Glossier suggests layering the You collection fragrances, which share the same Ambrox base.
Claims & certifications
Formulas change. Always check the packaging, and patch-test if your skin is reactive.
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What people say
Verbatim from Reddit, forums, blogs and the beauty press — linked, so you can read the whole thread.
4 verbatim quotes · 2 positive · 1 critical
If we're talking about cultural relevance, I feel like glossier you deserves a shout out. It is popular across all age groups and pretty much keeping the brand going at this point. There's so many different dupes, and I feel like a lot of people know it, even if they're not fragrance people.
I am ALWAYS recommending Glossier You in these subs and feel like weird about it for some reason but damn if it isn't the perfume that I get the most compliments on. People have chased me down to ask and several people I know have purchased it themselves now.
Glossier you is already way overpriced for what it is
I can't smell You by Glossier or Missing Person by Phlur - but I 'can absolutely smell' - Sonic Flower by Room 1015 (very similar to You)
Price & value
Typical price
$82.00
for 1.7 fl oz / 50 ml
Per ounce
$48.50
Right around the going rate per ounce for fragrance. Our value score: 6.6/10 for a prestige pick.
Price checked November 2026 at a non-Amazon retailer. Prices change — retailers show the current one.
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FAQ
Glossier lists pink pepper as the top note, iris in the heart and ambrette and Ambrox in the base. It is mostly base notes, so it smells like a soft, warm musk that changes with skin chemistry.
It is built around Ambrox and musky notes that wear close to the skin, and some people are less sensitive to these molecules. Several Reddit users say they cannot smell it, so sampling first is wise.
Glossier sells You in 8 ml, 50 ml and 100 ml sizes, priced at $32, $82 and $116 on its site.
Yes. Glossier designs the You collection fragrances to share the same warm Ambrox base so they can be layered and mixed.
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